How to respond to “Your last rep promised things that never happened”
Customers say “Your last rep promised things that never happened” for a reason. Here is what usually sits behind it, how to respond and what to avoid.
What is really behind it
A colleague, or the company, made commitments that were not kept, and the customer is carrying the cost of that. They want accountability and an assurance that this call is different. You may not know what was promised, so ask for the details and avoid confirming or denying something you cannot see.
Typical in: Software and SaaS, Telecom and energy, Professional services
How to respond
Pick the framework that fits the customer. The wording is an example direction, not a script: say it in your own words.
Name the feeling
Say out loud what the customer seems to feel, so they can correct you.
“That is frustrating, and I am sorry it happened. I do not want to make the same mistake by assuming. What was promised, and what actually happened? I would like to understand it properly.”
Clarify before you answer
Ask what sits behind the objection, so you answer the real concern.
“Thank you for raising it. So I can look into it and not just apologise, can you tell me what was agreed, roughly when, and with whom? I will check what is on record and come back to you.”
Propose a smaller step
Shrink the decision to something low-risk that moves things forward.
“I will not make you any big promises now. What I can do is find out what happened, and tell you by [day] what I can and cannot do about it. Would you be willing to hear that before deciding anything?”
The follow-up question
After your response, ask:
What would have to happen for you to feel that the earlier problem had been properly dealt with?
What not to say
Avoid: I wasn’t here then, so I can’t be responsible for what they said.
It is technically true and emotionally useless. The customer deals with the company, not with individuals, so you sound like you are avoiding ownership.
Practise it out loud
Reading is not the same as saying it. Talk to an AI customer who raises this kind of objection and see in the report which sentence helped.
What does “Your last rep promised things that never happened” really mean?
A colleague, or the company, made commitments that were not kept, and the customer is carrying the cost of that. They want accountability and an assurance that this call is different. You may not know what was promised, so ask for the details and avoid confirming or denying something you cannot see.
How do you respond to “Your last rep promised things that never happened”?
Name the feeling: “That is frustrating, and I am sorry it happened. I do not want to make the same mistake by assuming. What was promised, and what actually happened? I would like to understand it properly.” Clarify before you answer: “Thank you for raising it. So I can look into it and not just apologise, can you tell me what was agreed, roughly when, and with whom? I will check what is on record and come back to you.” Propose a smaller step: “I will not make you any big promises now. What I can do is find out what happened, and tell you by [day] what I can and cannot do about it. Would you be willing to hear that before deciding anything?”
What should you ask after “Your last rep promised things that never happened”?
What would have to happen for you to feel that the earlier problem had been properly dealt with?
What should you not say when a customer says “Your last rep promised things that never happened”?
Avoid “I wasn’t here then, so I can’t be responsible for what they said.” It is technically true and emotionally useless. The customer deals with the company, not with individuals, so you sound like you are avoiding ownership.
Educational conversation training. It is not legal or financial advice and it promises no results. Always follow your company’s rules, the terms of the product and a customer’s clear no.